agar main kahoon..........

I came across some comments accidentally when I was making my new account for the blog…since the old one was in the process of getting defunct…

As you all very well know that I don’t leave you the comments to be posted ( ha-ha…I deactivate that option:))…but incidentally it was for this one block that I managed to get two comments…one of them was an advice and the other one seemed to be a bit typical answer to the comment…

This article spoke of my true sentiments at that particular time…and the advice was what which told me to do the obvious…but a very heartfelt and right one…however it was the other comment which pained me (good I don’t access that blog any more)

Love and death are two guests are uninvited …worse…love is one such thing that never announces its commencement…it just happens…and before u realize u are in the middle of it...

I am not a cynic but perhaps seen it all...experiences from the friends who have gone through it…and what I believe that its not for sensitive people…you should have the attitude of “chalta hain…aur koi milega”…the biggest hurt in any relationship is rejection and love is no exception…

I know I know…many of you must be on the verge of argument that…the feeling is good, that nothing is wrong in it…but hang on guys…it isnt something that I would like any one of you to go through this pain…not even my enemies…it sucks…the world appears to be dark and colorless…and at times you feel that you are going mad…

I also admit that the feeling when it starts is just so amazing…u are on seventh cloud …but then slowly all those black emotions come out. Right out of the Pandora’s Box…and you are left helpless…this is what makes me wonder..."ajab hain ishq hain yaara...pal do pal ki khushiyan..."

And if the feeling is returned it’s amazing…but if its not…you wonder…why you :):):)…
This is why I somewhere understood the depth of the song “Tanhayee….”

But this stage passes too and you come in that state where the hurt is not raw…but still pulsating….you feel numb…insensitive…as if drunk…u just want to stay alone…Tears are ur freinds...who come uninvited anytime...any moment...

U wonder and re wonder...."sau dard hain...sau rahatein...sab mila dilnasheen ...ek tu hi nahin..."
It depends on you how fast you come out of it…or do you come out of it in the first place??? I guess you just compromise…after what is life for?
If any one of you have already fallen in love and hurt…u will somewhere agree with me…for those who have not…sorry for disappointment …in the end what I would like to say that… “Be brave ”