My vacation long gone. Now life is more on roller skates.. Weekends included.
Had been to an amazing friend yesterday. He recently got married and has a very soft spoken cute wife. When my friend, me the chatterbox and my better (???) half meet, it's like talking and laughing. Her silence was speaking, but yesterday she made a genuine effort to talk and I really liked her. My friend's parents were on visit and we had gone to meet them.
Somehow his mom's commanding personality kept her on mute after a while. And then I saw that tattoo, faded one on her neck. I was impressed. For those of who know me very well, know my love tattoo and my wish to have one in my life.
"Ohh.. You have tattoo.." I said. She smiled" did it pain a lot?" I asked, glad to find an awesome topic to talk on. But before she could talk, her mother in law pitched in. " ohh.. We don't like it and have told her to get it removed. Does it look good. Now see, even you saw it.. It's so noticeable.." " but I like". I said. it" then why didn't you get it done" " because why husband didn't agree yet" suddenly some other topic came up and the tattoo taboo topic was promptly forgotten. But I detected a sadness in her silence. Of letting go something you like since the new I laws don't like it. Why? I wondered. Why there is no total acceptance. Of wish to change the moment the person is legally yours to make changes.
Somehow our decision to visit them was annoying as well since we got half of sweets back since the parents have diabetes.. Any guesses who gave half of our gift as return gift???
Had been to an amazing friend yesterday. He recently got married and has a very soft spoken cute wife. When my friend, me the chatterbox and my better (???) half meet, it's like talking and laughing. Her silence was speaking, but yesterday she made a genuine effort to talk and I really liked her. My friend's parents were on visit and we had gone to meet them.
Somehow his mom's commanding personality kept her on mute after a while. And then I saw that tattoo, faded one on her neck. I was impressed. For those of who know me very well, know my love tattoo and my wish to have one in my life.
"Ohh.. You have tattoo.." I said. She smiled" did it pain a lot?" I asked, glad to find an awesome topic to talk on. But before she could talk, her mother in law pitched in. " ohh.. We don't like it and have told her to get it removed. Does it look good. Now see, even you saw it.. It's so noticeable.." " but I like". I said. it" then why didn't you get it done" " because why husband didn't agree yet" suddenly some other topic came up and the tattoo taboo topic was promptly forgotten. But I detected a sadness in her silence. Of letting go something you like since the new I laws don't like it. Why? I wondered. Why there is no total acceptance. Of wish to change the moment the person is legally yours to make changes.
Somehow our decision to visit them was annoying as well since we got half of sweets back since the parents have diabetes.. Any guesses who gave half of our gift as return gift???
